Spiritual Mentoring

As LGBTQ+ persons, it is not easy to find others with whom we can share our inner lives honestly and openly. Spiritual mentoring (aka spiritual companionship/direction) offers you that kind of relationship with someone who is attentive, nonjudging, and knowledgeable about the path.

Would you consider letting me be a mentor on your hero’s journey?

David Gormong
M.A. Spirituality

Meditation Practices

I am a listener, a counselor, a companion on the way. I bring the empathy of someone who knows the queer experience from the inside. I will be attentive to you, accept you, appreciate the complexities of your life, and offer you the freedom to explore.

I have a strong background in spirituality. I have an M.A. in spirituality and have done doctoral work in this field as well. I was a pastor for over 20 years, and have taught religion on the college level.

A spiritual practice is more important than knowledge, though. I encourage those I mentor to develop a meditation practice of their own. Meditation is, for most of us, a key to finding the inner source of love we need for our healing and transformation.

For many years, my primary practice was centering prayer from the Christian tradition. These days, my practice is anchored in classical yoga, the meditative ancestor of popular postural yoga. I supplement that with meditative practices from other traditions (Buddhist, Christian, Daoist, Hindu, Sufi, secular), and these change from time to time.

Given this background, I can walk with you if you are committed to one of these traditional paths. But more and more of us don’t fit these categories. We’re spiritual but not religious, interspiritual, or a hyphenated practitioner (Buddhist-Christian, for instance). I especially want to support those who are exploring beyond institutional boundaries.

I usually meet with clients for a 60 minute session every other week. We can meet in person (if you are in the Washington, DC area) or connect by video. My rates (depending on income) range from $65 to $95 per session in most cases.

If you work with me, you will have

  • A safe place to talk about your spirituality, your sexuality, and your life.
  • A relationship that nurtures your healing and personal growth.
  • Insights from a knowledgeable guide.
  • Encouragement to grow into your gifts and purpose.
  • The freedom, guidance, and support to find your own path to the transcendent.

If you’re interested, let’s set up a time to talk. I’ll be happy to chat with you about the process, answer your questions, and explore together whether this is the right fit for you.


David has helped me understand my journey and myself,
not only as a gay man but also as a Christian and artist.
His hard and honest questions lead me to see myself and others around me.
His compassion, loyal presence and sensitivity help me find courage to carry on. 
When I was in the darkest place I’ve even been
he was there with me, guiding me through those uncertain times.

~Sérgio D.

It wasn’t until I began professional psychiatric therapy
that I realized how helpful David’s guidance had been
in equipping me, both spiritually and emotionally,
to navigate the murky waters between the spirit and the psyche.
Your story is safe with David;
he cares, fiercely.

~Jonny C.

Favorite Quotes on Spiritual Mentoring

From the Christian tradition:
It is no mean consolation in this life
to have someone in whom your spirit may rest,
to whom you can pour out your soul.
~Aelred of Rievaulx (12th century monk, likely gay)

From the Buddhist tradition:
Ven. Ānanda went to the Blessed One [the Buddha]
and, on arrival, having bowed down to the Blessed One, sat to one side.
As he was sitting there, Ven. Ānanda said to the Blessed One,
“This is half of the holy life, lord:
having admirable people as friends, companions, and colleagues.”
“Don’t say that, Ānanda,” [said the Buddha]. “Don’t say that.
Having admirable people as friends, companions, and colleagues
is actually the whole of the holy life.”

~Upaḍḍha Sutta

From the Sufi tradition:
Whoever travels without a guide needs two hundred years for a two-day journey.


You can learn more about me by reading my story or checking out my blog. You can learn more about spiritual mentoring/companionship/direction at the SDI International website. As a member of SDI, I subscribe to their ethical guidelines. I’ll be happy to discuss my training and supervision further if you are interested.